The wedding dance: Ideas to choreograph a first wedding dance that surprises everyone.

The wedding dance for your big day is a key and important piece, so check out this article that will help you perform a choreography up to the task.

Any couple wishing to surprise their guests with their first wedding dance has an unlimited number of options to choose from, ranging from more classic styles like the waltz or swing to modern styles like hip-hop or a flash mob.  

It is well-known that finding the perfect song for the first dance is one of the most important things for a couple, but deciding what the dance will look like can be even more crucial. If you want to surprise your guests and give them a show they will remember, the dance must be well choreographed so that the result is unique.  

These ideas can range from the traditional and intimate slow dance performed solely by the couple to a spectacular show involving family, friends, and perhaps even professional dancers. If you opt for a more extravagant dance routine, it will require some work from everyone involved.  

We are here to guide you through the process of choreographing your special wedding dance. Take note of everything you need to know!

Baile nupcial novio / Photo via Escuela Carácter
Groom wedding dance  / Photo via Escuela Carácter

The first thing to keep in mind: how important is the wedding dance to you? 

It all starts with an idea, and since there are endless possibilities when it comes to your first wedding dance, the best way to begin is by deciding how much time and effort you are willing to invest in it. This will vary greatly by couple and can be the determining factor in how big or small the choreography will be.  

If you’ve decided to involve more people and turn the dance into a flash mob, it’s important to inform everyone in advance, as they’ll need time to learn the choreography. Make sure everyone involved knows exactly when the first dance will take place during the ceremony.  

The first step in planning a traditional first dance (involving just you as a couple) is deciding whether you’ll do it yourselves or hire a professional. Choreographing it yourselves requires hard work, while hiring a professional choreographer involves less effort and ensures a perfect and polished result.  

Baile nupcial / Photo via Escuela Carácter
Wedding dance/ Photo via Escuela Carácter

How to choose the perfect music?

The first wedding dance is one of the elements of a wedding where the couple can showcase their style and personalities. Therefore, choosing the perfect music is crucial—it can range from personal favorites to songs that represent who you are as individuals and as a couple.  

The song (or songs) you choose will greatly affect the final result, so it’s essential to give this part plenty of thought.  

Here we tell you everything about live music for weddings—this is everything you need to know!  

Baile nupcial / Photo via Escuela Carácter
Wedding dance / Photo via Escuela Carácter

Classic or modern.

The first question any couple needs to answer is whether they want to have a classic wedding dance or one that’s more modern. For a classic first dance, you might consider styles like slow dance, waltz, or foxtrot. These will amaze your guests with the beauty and elegance of the dance and the music.  

If you choose a modern first dance style, any recent music can be used, even a mix of your favorite songs. Your guests will be thrilled with a fun experience that showcases your personalities in a musical way.  

And if you can’t decide… why choose? You can always do a mix and start with a classic dance, ending with the craziest and most fun moves.  

Don’t forget to add a personal touch! 

There are many ways to surprise your guests by adding personal elements to your wedding dance choreography. For example, you can involve your guests in the moment or apply a specific theme to the dance.  

Baile nupcial con temática / Photo via Escuela Carácter
Themed wedding dance / Photo via Escuela Carácter

Group choreography.

Incorporating group choreography into your first dance is a fantastic way to involve your guests and create a memorable moment for everyone. Teaching your guests a simple step or routine so they can join the dance adds an element of surprise and fun, making them feel like active participants in the celebration. Whether it’s a basic line dance or a simple flash mob-style routine, this shared moment can bring everyone together, adding that personal touch.  

Baile sorpresa / Photo via Escuela caracter
Sorprise dance / Photo via Escuela caracter

Themed wedding dance. 

Adding a theme to your wedding dance also adds a personal and even creative touch, making it even more unforgettable for you and your guests. A wide range of different themes can become the highlight of your first dance.  

For example, movie lovers can draw inspiration from an iconic film or series they love and make their first dance feel like a tribute to something meaningful. Whether you recreate the classic lift from *Dirty Dancing* or opt for a modern twist by reviving *La La Land*, movie-inspired choreography allows you to connect your dance with shared passions.  

Choosing a time period with significant musical style, like the swing-filled 1950s or the groovy 1970s, can also result in a themed period routine, complete with music from that time to evoke nostalgia for your guests. Vintage costumes, classic songs, and the characteristic dance moves of that era can transport your guests back in time, creating a unique and surprising moment.  

And without a doubt, a *Bridgerton*-style wedding dance theme will leave everyone speechless, as it’s a wedding trend that continues to grow—perfect for fans of the series, glamour, and bygone eras!  

Escuela Carácter, the best option for a unique wedding dance.  

Once you’ve decided to hire a professional choreographer, the endless search for the right instructor or school begins. Fortunately, we already know the best school to guide you through the process of designing the perfect first dance, accommodating all your wishes in a professional and personalized environment.  

Escuela Carácter is the top dance school in Madrid for couples looking to create unforgettable first dances that surprise and amaze their guests.  

Escuela Carácter believes that anyone can learn to dance, regardless of previous experience. Their mission is to design an exclusive, personalized choreography that always aligns with the couple’s wishes and is adapted to their taste and dance level. During the lessons, couples will learn the necessary tools for the routine and work on the interpretive part of the choreography. By combining these crucial elements, the first dance becomes a true spectacle that will surprise all the guests.  

Specializing in various classic styles such as bachata, salsa, and tango, Escuela Carácter is the perfect place for any couple’s first wedding dance. Due to the personal touch provided by the teachers, any style and song the couple wishes to include in the choreography can be used.  

They also offer flash mob classes for your guests! Imagine surprising everyone with a spectacular routine at your event. From the youngest to the oldest, everyone can join in the fun and make that day unforgettable. Don’t hesitate to contact them—it will be a unique experience!  

And when it comes to choreography with Escuela Carácter, nothing is impossible.  

Preparación baile nupcial / Photo via Wedding and Events by Natalia Ortiz
Wedding dance preparation  / Photo via Escuela Carácter

We help make your wedding dance perfectly integrate into your wedding

Would you like your wedding dance to fit perfectly with the style of your wedding? Don’t hesitate to contact Carmen Davinia Eventos, an expert wedding planner for themed weddings. She will make every detail magical and ensure your first dance as a married couple is unforgettable. Create unique moments with her help!  

Still looking for inspiration? There are many other ways you can leave a lasting impression on all your guests! And indeed, it’s through a wedding with the most popular themes.  

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